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Miss America by Day: Lessons Learned from Ultimate Betrayals and Unconditional Love | 
 enlarge | Author: Marilyn Van M. Derbur
Publisher: Oak Hill Ridge Pr
Category: Book
Buy Used: $35.50
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Rating:  12 reviews
Sales Rank: 486057
Media: Paperback
Pages: 561
Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.4
Dimensions (in): 9 x 6.1 x 1.2
ISBN: 0972829857
Dewey Decimal Number: 920
EAN: 9780972829854
ASIN: 0972829857
Publication Date: May 2004
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Product Description
A former Miss America from Colorado tells the gripping story of her life as an incest survivor. A Colorado best seller in hardcover, new in pb.
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Everyone should read this book May 16, 2008
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
I am not a victim of sexual abuse, but my mother-in-law saw the author speak and sent me this book. I have a son and am so incredibly glad that I read this book. I think it is one of the most important books written. Not only was it interesting - captivating, really - it was also incredibly educational. I learned so much about sexual abuse that I never knew before. I now know what to look for and what to ask to keep my son safe. The most unbelievable things DO happen and if we all know that then we have to act and it can't continue. This is one of the best messages I got from the book.
A must for all abuse survivers December 11, 2007
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
I first picked this book up in a library, as a 'good read'.
It is all of that...well written, evocative and shocking, but best of all, it offers hope to victims and survivers of incest, child abuse and all the associated crimes of one human being against another, that we can rise above it.
Marilyn does not pull any punches, however she does offer insights and practical ways to heal, including a directory of places to go for help.
If you suspect that you need help, you almost certainly do.
Start here, with Miss America by Day
"Every Child Needs Someone Who Would Die For Him/Her" Richard Wexler, National Coalition for Child Protection Reform November 7, 2007
2 out of 2 found this review helpful
Shame threatened to kill author Marilyn Van Durber if she revealed the truth about her childhood to her daughter Jennifer.
"I believed with all my heart, that when I told Jennifer [that I'd been sexually violated by my father], she would say, `I don't want you to be my mom anymore.' I knew I would be as unacceptable to her as I was to myself.
"If you are not a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I'm sure it is difficult to understand that kind of shame but it is very real. We feel so unworthy and we believe, each time we disclose, that we will be shunned, no longer wanted. Sometimes our fears are confirmed."
Van Durber took the risk and lived. Her daughter did not reject her; in fact, she embraced her, and this led her to be able to help thousands of sexual abuse survivors face telling the truth--her reason for writing MISS AMERICA BY DAY.
Read this book, share it with everyone you know, and begin to "do the work," because all children--including the ones trembling inside adult survivors--need someone who will die for them.
Note: The author thoughtfully combines autobiographical and educational material, and does it well.
 Miss America by Day: Lessons learned from Ultimate Betrayals and Unconditional Love October 7, 2007
1 out of 1 found this review helpful
I have a friend that went through sexual abuse with your father and has been suffering from this all her life. It was good to read the book to be able to understand her better and also feel it would be a good book for those that have been sexually abused by their father or any other person. You realize that you are not alone and the book helps you to understand what you are going through and why you are feeling the way you do.
A gift to those who've suffered September 14, 2007
3 out of 3 found this review helpful
I read the article in People Magazine when Marilyn Van Derbur first told the world she had been a victim of incest. I shuddered and literally sobbed because it triggered a new memory for me. I'd just learned a couple years earlier I, too, had been a victimized, and I was in the process of healing. When I read her book I could relate over and over again to what she'd been through. This is a must-read for victims who want to become (or already have become) VICTORS! Soar Unafraid: Learning to Trust No Matter What
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